Finding Help in times of need -Part 2

It is not bizarre

Do you have needs that made you think of the worst? Have you ever thought you are in the strangest situation out of all the people living on earth? You are not alone. So many people find themselves in difficult and challenging situations from time to time, and some have been able to weather the storm. They were able to come out the other end triumphant, but it is not always the case for everyone.

Is it strange to have needs or seek help?

It is sometimes worrying to see what some people do when they have a need. They lose hope or give up and some result to suicide. So many things could have led to such actions and decisions, but could this be avoided? Can this tragedy be turned around? It may be comforting for them to know that they are probably in a situation similar or better off than someone else. It could also be helpful to understand that there could be a way out. Someone may have been in the same position at some point in time.

It is common to see people call the ambulance when there is an injury or drive the patient to the hospital. If a child gets seriously injured on the playground, for instance, the parents will be worried and probably frightened. They will take the child to the hospital. Have you ever wondered why the medical team are usually not as terrified? The doctors, experienced in treating such injuries will not be as scared because they have seen such before, and they know what to do to meet that need. They then try to pass on that confidence to the patient, and hope to the parents, showing the way back to recovery. One interesting thing you might also find in the hospital is that there are even worse cases that can make yours trivial. They are also likely to tell you if you inquire that so many other people have had the same experience. It is similar in life. What you are going through is not strange. Your frustration could be because you do not know what to do.

It may be reassuring to know that what you are going through is what someone else has gone through, and someone in the future will still have to go through the same experience. It is not just you, so do not give up.

It might be different for different people, and some may know what to do while others may not know, some others may not even know that the help they require exists.

Whatever has happened to you has almost certainly been experienced by someone before. It is always vital to know what to do. I found this to be true regardless of status, culture or nation.

Some may think they have needs because they are not in a particular profession or like certain people. They hope that their needs will disappear, only if they can swap positions. I wish they were able to ask those people; they will find out, they also have their own needs. The rich may not need money, but they also have necessities that make them seek for help. There are needs everywhere, whether in London, New York, Paris or Sydney. Anywhere in the world. Individuals, families, communities, and nations all have needs. They all try to find a way to get their needs met. You do not have to see yourself as strange but seek the help you need.

The weak need help, the strong also need help. Do not commit suicide because of your needs. Seek for help on what to do to get out of it.

While the needs of everyone may be different, the principle is the same. You can get out of that situation if you know what to do. The doctor needs something that his medical expertise cannot deliver. The teacher requires something that his skills cannot provide. The lawyer seeks help for a challenge that his legal skills cannot solve. The celebrities have needs that fame cannot meet.

It is normal to seek for help. The wise understand this, and take advantage of it. Why think of suicide because you failed an exam? It is not your end, get yourself together and get help. Whatever the situation you may find yourself, there is hope for you. The right assistance is all you need to get yourself back again.

You do not have enough money, and you want to kill yourself? It could be a difficult situation, but there is hope for you if you can get access to the help you need. It may not be as bad as you think when you locate the support you require.

Are you thinking of ending your life because you lost your job as a cleaner, actor, lawyer, director or in any other role? Take it easy. It is not strange. Managers lose their jobs also. Ministers and Ambassadors lose their jobs, MPs wake up to discover that they no longer have a job. Governors lose their positions in elections. Presidents are voted out and have to come to terms with reality. It is not strange. Do not commit suicide but seek help on what to do next. It is not the end. You can get help for the next line of action. It is the wise thing to do.

Companies seek for help, so they do not go into administration. Virgin Atlantic, among others, was seeking help to keep the company afloat. It is owned, by one of the most influential people in the world, but they also seek help in need to keep them going. Communities are asking for help.

Governments around the world are doing the same. They seek help for their needs. It is not bizarre, and it is not just you. If you cannot handle it any more, cry out for help, it is wise.

It is not strange to have needs, so you do not have to think of doing anything disastrous in the time of need. C’est ne pas bizarre, c’est normal. Do not give up get help.

To be continued next week, don’t miss it.

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